As I was babysitting tonight, after putting the kid to sleep, I started reading some of the baby mama's magazines. I read an article in Real Simple about frizzy hair remedies. One tip was to condition your hair BEFORE you shampoo. It's supposed to be less harsh and tame the frizzies. Normally, after getting out of the shower, I tend to look like Oliver when he walked across that street grate. (See floofy red-headed kitty!). It seemed risky (like the time I put baby oil in my hair. Well, I WAS ten.), but I tried it, and it really worked! I even used a shampoo that I don't like because it tends to, well, see kitty.
The trick is, slather the conditioner from roots to ends, and comb through. Then, shampoo ONLY the roots. The lathering is great this way as well.
Good Luck! Let me know if you try it and how it works for you.
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